29th March 2011 is a new date to remember which I've marked in my calendar. It was the date my beloved grandpa been criminate. He has been having parkinson sickness more than 20 years. All the while he needs medicine to control the movements that caused him getting thinner and thinner, body getting weak day by day. However, he has a great memory, he can still remember each of us from his children, to grand children and even great grand children. No doubt his leaving make us feel very sad, it is good to know that he leaving us peacefully without suffering.
In the 5 days funeral, all our families, relatives and friends came to give the last respect. One of my cousin posted a question: "What is the most memorable thing you had in Gong Gong ? " He was the best grandpa ever. He never scolded us before. Remembered when I was a kid, I used to go out play with my sister and cousins during evening, he will always allow us to go outside whenever we asked him. My grandpa was also a great singer especially in the bathroom. I used to listen he singing in the bathroom he while I m having my food at the kitchen. I've never seen my grandpa cried before until there was once during one of the CNY. My grandma scolded him for a small matter, that really makes him felt so sad and cried. I'll never forget the scene.
Talked about his fav food, he liked Rojak, Stim Beans (yellow color, dont know what the actual name called), Abang Balik (a kuih, not sure it spell this way). When we went to pasar malam, he will always asked us to buy Rojak and stim beans for him. He will always cough when he eating Rojak, but he still enjoyed the food. Then during tea break, we went to buy kuih kuih, he always eat Abang Balik. By default, we will know what to buy for him for his tea break without asking him.
Although he has passed away, I knew he is still be with us. He was just not living with us anymore but living in the heaven. Gong Gong, you will always be in my heart and be remembered. We will always missing you. Dont worry about us, we will take care ourself and also popo. May you rest in peace.
Love you always.
Now then I am worry about my grandma, she was so sad when knowing her beloved husband passed away. Is painful to see her cry. During these days, she sit on the chair and starring, I asked her what is she thinking, she said nothing. That time, how I wish I could really read her mind. What we can do is accompany her as much as we can. She is lonely and needs accompany. Hope that each of us will spend more time with her and go back visit her more often so that she wont feel so lonely. Popo, you have to be tough ok. You still have us --> your children, grand children and great grand children are here for you. We want to you to be happy and smile more, let the worries and unhappiness go away. I will go back more often to visit you and sleep at your place. Love you Popo.
In the 5 days funeral, all our families, relatives and friends came to give the last respect. One of my cousin posted a question: "What is the most memorable thing you had in Gong Gong ? " He was the best grandpa ever. He never scolded us before. Remembered when I was a kid, I used to go out play with my sister and cousins during evening, he will always allow us to go outside whenever we asked him. My grandpa was also a great singer especially in the bathroom. I used to listen he singing in the bathroom he while I m having my food at the kitchen. I've never seen my grandpa cried before until there was once during one of the CNY. My grandma scolded him for a small matter, that really makes him felt so sad and cried. I'll never forget the scene.
Talked about his fav food, he liked Rojak, Stim Beans (yellow color, dont know what the actual name called), Abang Balik (a kuih, not sure it spell this way). When we went to pasar malam, he will always asked us to buy Rojak and stim beans for him. He will always cough when he eating Rojak, but he still enjoyed the food. Then during tea break, we went to buy kuih kuih, he always eat Abang Balik. By default, we will know what to buy for him for his tea break without asking him.
Although he has passed away, I knew he is still be with us. He was just not living with us anymore but living in the heaven. Gong Gong, you will always be in my heart and be remembered. We will always missing you. Dont worry about us, we will take care ourself and also popo. May you rest in peace.
Love you always.
Now then I am worry about my grandma, she was so sad when knowing her beloved husband passed away. Is painful to see her cry. During these days, she sit on the chair and starring, I asked her what is she thinking, she said nothing. That time, how I wish I could really read her mind. What we can do is accompany her as much as we can. She is lonely and needs accompany. Hope that each of us will spend more time with her and go back visit her more often so that she wont feel so lonely. Popo, you have to be tough ok. You still have us --> your children, grand children and great grand children are here for you. We want to you to be happy and smile more, let the worries and unhappiness go away. I will go back more often to visit you and sleep at your place. Love you Popo.
